There were numerous points that can be pointed out for as to why one is better than the other. She knew that both situations either to be in a relationship or to remain out of relationship has its own pro and cons. Depending on what is the objective of her life at that point in time, she should just make decision on what will make her more happy and comfortable.
Being single is not all that bad. Being single let you know yourself a little closer and it allows one to grow up and be more independent. She needed the space of being alone, she is able to make her own decision without having to think about someone else’s needs or rather without being influenced by someone. It’s not that it is all bad to have someone to think of, but when considering other makes you restrict yourself from being more and great, that is really a situation to be scrutinized.
Once she was given the opportunity to study abroad. Her dad gave her the choice to choose either to go over to Australia, United Kingdom, and Ireland, New Zealand or any other places of her choice. But she was dumb enough to thanks, but no thanks. Was she even in a correct state of mind to actually throw the opportunity away? YES to others but NO to her at that point of time. You see she was really in love with her ex-bf. She was a very darling gf. He obviously dislikes the idea. She doesn’t want her bf to worry sick about her. And she herself hated the thoughts of being away from him. Not forgetting that the lifestyle is obviously going to be different, there’s not gonna be night time shopping session and there won’t be frappuccino session with her close friends. She just couldn’t imagine life far away from her parents.
Above all that’s been said, she acted and makes a dumb decision. She now realizes that she should have grabbed the chance while it’s there. She should have take up the challenge. Girls, if the guy loves you as much as he said he did, then he will wait for you no matter how long how far you are.
She really regretted it. But she also knows that there’s no need to dwell in it. She accept ted that it’s her very own decision and so she has to stand by her decision and the consequences. She tells herself to learn from it instead of crying over it. Suck it up and move on to achieve the better.
Being single let her sees things clearly and let her to slowly know herself. Being single let her focus on what she wanted in life. So that there will not be any more regrets and mistakes.
She is very thankful of everything that happens. Mistakes are not bad, life is not about how many mistakes you managed to avoid. Life is about going and living through it, making mistakes is human nature, brave to deal with mistakes and improvise is what matters. That what makes you wiser, tougher and that what makes you who you are.
